I’m An Introvert But I Need People Around to Ignore | Conversations With the Browns
You probably have some ideas about the differences between introverts and extroverts when it comes to socializing. We tend to believe that being an introvert or an extrovert falls on a continuum rather than fully on one end or the other. Today we talk about one instance where we have found similarities and differences between us. Join today’s conversation between one introvert and one extrovert.
Asking This Question Might Have Saved My Life! | What Is Mine To Do? Part 2 | Conversations With the Browns
The question, “What is mine to do?” is simple yet can bring clarity and focus to many very nuanced situations. Join us for Part 2 in this conversation about what could be the most important question you can ask yourself.
Asking This Question Might Have Saved My Life! | What Is Mine To Do? Part 1 | Conversations With the Browns
This podcast episode is a segue from a conversation we had on our last podcast, What is the “Amp Wheel”? In this episode, we wanted to talk more about how the question, “What is mine to do?” can bring clarity to many situations, especially if you feel like you are getting amped up about something.
What Is the “Amp Wheel”? | Conversations With the Browns
The term “Amp Wheel” came from one of our first podcast episodes. We were talking about being on the Amp Wheel and someone asked what is the Amp Wheel and how do you get off of it? We decided to explain what we mean by the Amp Wheel and have a conversation about how it affects us when we’re on it.
Be Careful What You Say, Your Kids Are Listening | Conversations With the Browns
This is a follow-up episode to our podcast “4 Tips To Help Parents Navigate the 2020/2021 School Year.” In normal circumstances, kids pick up on every juicy tidbit we talk about in front of them. Especially now with the stress and angst of the school year unknowns, it can be easy to express our fears, doubts, and bad feelings out loud and not realize that our kids are hearing every word we say. They are hearing our words and taking on those stresses and attitudes as well. This episode is about how we can best communicate our feelings about the 2020/2021 school year without affecting our kids negatively.
4 Tips To Help Parents Navigate the 2020/2021 School Year | Conversations With the Browns
Whether your kids were attending a traditional school setting or being homeschooled pre-pandemic, you are probably feeling some additional stress this school year. The pandemic is affecting everyone in some way. Were you like us and thought that school would go back to normal this fall? It is obvious that is not going to happen.
Are You Comfortable Being Self Deceived? | Conversations With The Browns
The box is a scary place to be. When we are in the box towards someone we are the one who misbehaves. We make the other person out to be worse than they really are. We look for evidence that backs up the story we are telling ourselves. We must create evidence in order to remain in our self-deception. It’s scary because as hate rises, we know we are not treating people like humans and we do it anyway.
Is This Why We Point Fingers and Blame Others? | Conversations With The Browns
To justify being inside the box, you must continue having your problems with people. It’s drama 101 and if you don’t have the drama, you fabricate it. We easily see this with kids. They don’t want to take responsibility for their behavior, so they will come up with all kinds of excuses for it. Be honest. Do you only see this happen with kids and other people or do you do this as well? Do you need others to behave “badly” so that you can continue to behave badly?
Are You Deceiving Yourself? | Conversations With The Browns
Self-deception is the action or practice of allowing oneself to believe that a false or unvalidated feeling, idea, or situation is true (dictionary.com). One of the ways this manifests itself is by not doing something we know we should do and then justifying our inaction to ourselves. When this occurs, we start to blame the people around us for the problems we perceive. It’s resisting the possibility that we are part of the problem.
This Word May Change the Debate | Conversations With the browns
Conversations are rarely ever black and white. There are many shades of meaning and expression that come through when you have conversations. This is called nuance. Understanding the nuance of a conversation will help you to have better and more meaningful conversations.
Track Your Reading
If the way you are already tracking reading is working for you, carry on! No need to mess with what is working. But if you want a better system, here is a roundup of some of our favorite ideas and resources.
What is An Echo Chamber? Are You in An Echo Chamber ? How to Avoid Confirmation Bias. | Conversations With the browns
Social media has made it so easy to stay up-to-date with family, friends, and the latest news. But have you noticed that you keep seeing the same information in your feed over and over again? This episode pulls back the curtain on social media’s closed systems, their purpose, and how to reach outside your echo chambers.
More Conversations and Less Declarations | Conversations With the Browns
My wife, Andrea, and I stopped our breakfast to have a conversation about the current protests about racism. We are hearing a lot of declarations being made, but not a lot of conversations. In this video, we explain what we mean by that.
Let the conversations begin |Conversations with the Browns
Our favorite conversations often happen at our kitchen table. We started this podcast as a way of inviting more friends to the table. We do not claim to be experts or even to agree on most things, but we would love for you to join the conversation.
Resources for encouraging reading
There are mixed feelings about reading in the Brown household, but one thing we hold in common is the value of learning. Reading is such a good way to learn, so we work to make reading enjoyable. When it comes to summer reading, here are a few of our favorite things: